Working with couples and betrayal
10.00 - 16.00Click here to book
Drake House 44 St George's Road London SW19 4ED
£128 + booking fees / Limited early-bird until 11th July 2022 or sold out £109 + booking fees /discount for Wimbledon Guild counsellors and trainee counsellors £100/Group bookings minimum of 4 and maximum of 10 £90 per ticket + booking fees
This one-day training will focus on clinical skills working with couples after betrayal such as affairs, lies, and secrets. The rate of infidelity is high amongst couples. More and more couples seek therapy after the discovery of an affair, lies or significant secrets. Facing betrayal provokes enormous emotion upset which can be difficult for therapists to hold. This training will be interactive, offering both theories and time to practice with case studies.
On this training you will learn:
1- Essential knowledge on the psychological impact of betrayal on intimate relationships.
2- How to assess both the betrayer and betrayed.
3- Interventions to help couples move through betrayal.
4- Explore common ethical dilemmas
5- Therapist’s bias/ blind spots on the subjects of intimate relationships and betrayal.
Silva Neves is a COSRT-accredited and UKCP-registered psychosexual and relationship psychotherapist, a trauma psychotherapist and an EMDR therapist. He is a Pink Therapy Clinical Associate. Silva works in his Central London private practice and online. He sees individuals and couples presenting with a wide range of sex and relationship issues.
Silva specialises in working with sexual trauma and compulsive sexual behaviours. He works extensively with the LGBTQ community as well as the heterosexual population.
Silva is a COSRT-accredited clinical supervisor. He is a Course Director for CICS (Contemporary Institute of Clinical Sexology)
He is an accreditation assessor for COSRT and a member of the editorial board for the leading international journal Sex and Relationship Therapy.
Please note all our counselling training events are paperless you will be emailed your certificate and handouts after the event.
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